Anonymous has asked: (stressed out anon) Hah the twerking video suggestion made me laugh. I'll try.. I've only got 2 more weeks left to deal with all of this shit anyways. My parents aren't quite as understanding, though... I tried talking to them like you suggested, and they haven't stopped.. but I think I'll be okay.. thank you. :)
I’m glad I could make you laugh.
I’m sorry that your parents are having a hard time understanding what you’re going through.
Perhaps you could also speak to your counselor about what’s going on at home. Your counselor might be able to talk to your parents and help them understand.
I hope all’s well. Stay strong, beautiful.
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Anonymous has asked: She'll be back on Tuesday.
Do you plan on telling her?
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Anonymous has asked: my friend has helped me with a lot and promises mean a lot to her but im going through a lot right now and i cut last night even though i promised i wouldnt and i dont want her to be mad at me if she sees them so what do i do?
Be honest with her.
I strongly believe that lying gets you nowhere.
She may be hurt because you broke a promise. However, she cares about you and she loves you. She will stay by your side.
May I ask why you self-harm?
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Anonymous has asked: My mother is out of town for work and my siblings don't live at home so it was just me and him.
When will your mother be back?
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Anonymous has asked: My dad because he found out that I like girls
I am shocked, appalled, disgusted, and almost speechless.
Your father is the cause of the bruises on your body and the broken ribs all because of your sexuality?
Where is your mother? Who else lives with you?
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Anonymous has asked: I'm suppose to say it was a car accident but someone got mad at me
Who, in particular, got mad at you and why?
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Anonymous has asked: For now, my cosy little closet is enough. I can be who I am on here, I can talk to people like you. I think my family would still talk to me, because they do love me, but they'd be cold and distant. They wouldn't be there for me like they are now. Well, one of my cousins would be okay with it. I just can't imagine them looking at me different. It makes me feel ill.
I understand.
If you honestly believe that the closet is enough for now, stay as you are.
But if you would rather be open about your sexuality now because it would make you much happier, open that closet door and walk out with pride.
If barricading yourself in the closet is bringing you down, then get the fuck out of there as soon as possible.
You deserve to be happy, darling.
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Anonymous has asked: (stressed out anon) everything about it.. The people are being absolute shits to me, for one thing. And I fell so far behind, I don't know if I can catch up before school's out. My parents are yelling at me for not being able to keep up, which isn't helping. And i'm losing my best friend because I don't have any time to hang out with her, because I have to get caught up. As far as the help goes, I don't know. I just.. I don't know how to deal with all of this.
Stress is a pain in the ass. Especially when it starts to get to your head and begins to kill you, slowly and carelessly. I know what that’s like.
Honestly, if I were you, I’d do these three things:
1. Talk to your best friend. Explain to her why you haven’t been able to see her lately. Explain to her how important it is that you get caught up in school. Explain to her that once you are caught up, you will make it up to her. If that’s not good enough for her or if she can’t understand that, she’s not your best friend.
2. Sit your parents down and talk to them. Tell them how their yelling affects you and tell them how you’re trying, yet struggling. Tell them how difficult it is for you right now and how much stress you’re under. Tell them that you need their love and support, if anything.
3. Talk to your teachers and perhaps your counselor at school. Figure something out. Get them to help you. They are educators, after all. It is their job to TEACH and to help their students.
Don’t start to hurt yourself when things get overwhelming. Take it out on a pillow. Scream at the top of your lungs. Splatter paint all over a canvas. Break pencils (it helps me). Cry. Watch YouTube videos of white females trying to twerk (it’s amusing). Eat Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream. Watch Mean Girls. Go jogging. Do SOMETHING other than hurt yourself when the stress gets to be too much.
And last but not least, when you’ve got yourself calmed down, evaluate your stressful situation(s)/problem(s) and figure out what you can do about them. If you don’t like something, change it.
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Anonymous has asked: I have some broken ribs and some bruises and I was wondering how long until they go away
Have you gotten checked out by a professional?
More than three broken ribs at one time is potentially life-threatening.
If you haven’t been to the hospital, you need to get someone to take you.
I can’t say how long it’ll take for the broken ribs to heal. But, bruises begin to fade within days/weeks. It depends on the severity of the bruise(s).
May I ask how this happened?
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Anonymous has asked: hi I have a problem
Hello. What’s your problem, love?
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